the wisdom

The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof.

Barbara Kingsolver



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Believing in Ghosts

I need you to hear something. That thing—that thing you’ve been dragging around, possibly for years—you know what I mean. That tipping point of shame in your life…

Fixing All That’s Broken

Please move, my ego would like your chair.
You know, I think I do things for others to show my love or because of something altruistic, but I’ve recently discovered…

The Art of Kindness

I wish I was kind—like Mary Poppins kind. I wish I said the right thing when people needed to hear it far more than I do.

How We Connect

I spend a lot of time working hard to avoid a certain emotional predicament. I dodge and head fake it, hide silently without moving in hopes it will pass and even lie to myself once it’s found me.

Talk To Me About The Beautiful Thing

Things don’t always go right. You’re not the only one this happens to. I hate the way it feels—the gaff I make, the thing I wish I’d said instead, the action I meant to take but didn’t.

Demarcation

Very often, there is a moment, a physical place in time where things change. A shift takes place and it may feel subtle at the time but the results can be significant.

18 Reasons Why It’s All Good

Life can throw curve balls and sometimes it feels like you’ve caught the ball in the head one too many times. I get it. But you know, those are just moments and life…

A Beginner’s Mind

Look at you with your capable self. The years have taught you quite a bit. You get it. At least, that’s how others look at it.

That Red Haired Yankee Girl

Mississippi is the only place where a man can call me *little lady* and I won’t give him the stink eye. It took awhile though.

35 Shots of Truth

By Jill MacGregor

I have a tendency to read things, like titles and headlines, with some of the letters jumbled. You say dyslexic, I say busy. When I discover my mistake it usually makes me laugh and then think. One day, I read ’35 shots of truth’ and loved the image it created [...]