by Jill MacGregor
Look at you with your capable self. The years have taught you quite a bit. You get it. Your story is one of determination, make me and forging a path without a map.
At least, that’s how others look at it.
You glance back over your shoulder with a shrug and a nod, acknowledging something you may not have a name for, but clearly understanding that it is yours. It’s so easy to forget all that others would find valuable—you’ve spent years taking it for granted.
Experience is a wonderful thing. The years of knowledge provide us with a bit of sense memory; guiding us on how to respond, what to expect, what is a red flag, what is surprising. We rarely question ourselves before acting—we just know. We’ve developed instincts.
Remember when you were just learning? When it was all new, rather confusing and there was a permanent question mark over your head. Everything felt like a discovery. Small tasks felt like challenges—but at the same time, you felt like a champion ALL THE TIME for accomplishing even the smallest thing.
Because it was all new.
You were surrounded by all things foreign and that kept you on your toes, your eyes open wide. You took nothing for granted.
But do you know what is easy to take for granted? The huge gap of time and experience that marks the place where you started and the place where you find yourself now. Your experiences are so unique, even if you’ve forgotten. Your stories make people lean in even if you think they might sound tedious and predictable.
Where you are today –well, that’s a wonderful thing and you’ve worked hard to get here. That holds true even if what you’re doing feels like it’s still a learning experience.
The most interesting and important thing about where you are today–everything that has led you to this moment– is how you got here. Your journey is an interesting one, your missteps are lessons to be shared, your hard fought and hard won accomplishments are inspirations.
Stop shaking your head—I’m right.
There’s so much more to be learned from your trek up the mountain than your actions on the summit. The ascent is the story—not necessarily where you plant your flag.
Don’t keep your light under a bushel.
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